Oaxaca
Posted: Wednesday, January 5, 2011 by Sir Lancealot inI stayed in Oaxaca for a week and a day. My first priority was to spend the little money my pal Juan had given me on getting in contact with a host. I sent out a few messages: first, to a few hosts, second, to ask if anybody in Oaxaca was up for hanging out. This is my tactic for every new city I'm in, for two reasons: because I would like a host with whom I can exchange conversation, work, meals, and information and have some static/familiarity with during my time, and second because even if I can't get a host I want to have some good company, and couchsurfing is damn good at providing good company. So for the first night, I was hanging out in the centro, where I saw a guy in a black robe leading a group of about 6 people. I smiled at him because of his garb, and he smiled back and approached me. We exchanged pleasantries and he informed me that they were doing a night tour of churches, and he invited me to join, even though it was going to be in Spanish. I was just looking for some diversion, so I said no problem, because I could at least spend some time listening to an orator speaking in spanish. We walked and talked, and he complimented my eyes, which I've never had before. I see. Oh well, he's still nice, and I dont write guys off just because they're attracted to me... they are good company and they are often nice enough to me and I just stick to my boundaries and communicate thoroughly any issues. Well, I didnt end up getting to stay at his place, and he directed me to a quiet corner in a church plaza where I could sleep and probably not be bothered by the police. Ive since learned that in Mexico it is common that churches are safe havens for the weary traveler; it is essentially public space and they have remarkably few homeless here so people often have a pitying ear for you, and there is absolutely no reason to panhandle.